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Thursday, February 15, 2007

Sports Tim Hardaway says:”You know, I hate gay people.”

Posted by Matt Davis on Thu, Feb 15 at 10:25 AM

Reacting to news last week of the coming out of British-born NBA player John Amaechi (because, you know, all British people are a little bit gay), retired Miami Heat guard Tim Hardaway told radio talk-show listeners yesterday:”You know, I hate gay people, so I let it be known. I don’t like gay people and I don’t like to be around gay people. I am homophobic. I don’t like it. It shouldn’t be in the world or in the United States.Muresan-hardaway.JPGHARDAWAY (left): Homophobe

Amaechi says he isn’t surprised by Hardaway’s comments, and that they’re representative of widespread homophobia in the NBA. In his new book, Man In the Middle, Amaechi writes that his sexuality was an open secret among the American sports media, but that reporters and journalists essentially refused to out him to avoid rocking the boat. How thoughtful. But it’s this comment, in the light of the fact Amaechi hasn’t heard from any other NBA players since last week, that really struck a chord with me. He tells the Miami Herald:

“But it’s hard to get straight guys to step up. When men stood by women during the suffrage movement, they were called progressive and bold. When whites stood by blacks, they were heroes. But a straight guy standing up for a gay guy faces discrimination, and that’s a big part of the battle we’re fighting.”
Growing up with a gay brother in South London, even in the polite, British, bit-gay suburbs, I was picked on a fair few times for standing up for his lifestyle choices. Most straight men will agree that Hardaway’s comments are out of line, but how many will step up in support of Amaechi? Any Blazers, for example? Na. Doubt it.

Thanks to Ezra for the heads up.

Comments

well done

It's a shame. Hardaway could ball too. He had a better crossover than anyone I've seen.

What an idiot. I hope they hold his feet to the fire for this.

Again, emphasizing the point that sports figures are not chosen for their smarts.

I hate gays!!!!111

"When whites stood by blacks they were heros" ???? Is he fucking kidding or or completely ignorant? They are heros now, but then?? This guy should learn a few things before he opens his mouth.

How in the world did it ever become politically correct to equate someone's sexual preference to race.

When you think of the oppression that black people and women in this country went through, the fact that someone could equate how they are viewed based off who they like to sleep with to those groups of people is down right offensive and ignorant.

Amchei has the right to do anything he wants to and sleep with anyone he wants to. But he does not have the right to tell or dictate how people view morality. He has absolutely no ground to stand on and no creditiblity to tell people how they should feel or they shouldn't feel or how they should think regarding their principles or beliefs, regardless of whether they approve or disapprove of his sexaul behavior.

Joe—as a British-Nigerian, Ameachi's experience is likely to have been different from many African Americans, growing up. But his "sexual behavior" is also a political issue. And I'd argue that he does have the right to ask people to support him. He's chosen to make his sexuality political—as is his right.

When will some people (Joe) stop trying to make a contest out of who is the more oppressed in our country. No one has claimed total equality even between black people and women as far as who was more oppressed. But to be basically making the argument that it's OK to hate gay people is just plain wrong, and to say it in public is even more wrong, and if you're famous it's even MORE wrong.

Sexual orientation is no more a choice than the color of skin, one's sex, or eye color. If you understand that, then you'd know it's not a "sexual preference."

Why's that important? Because the religion you choose is a preference. What you eat is a preference. Who or what you are, however, is not a preference. And THAT folks, is why it's similar to other oppression. It doesn't have to be EQUAL to the oppression of others to still be oppression.

Being gay is NOT about who one chooses to sleep with. It's about who that person IS. Yes it's about who they may be attracted to, but they may be single, not sleeping with ANYONE. The sleeping arrangements are not a requirement for being gay (sorry to tell those who think otherwise that, but it's true).

And unless we're going to put up to a popular vote EVERYONE's relationships(hetero or homo) then I think those who think they need to poke their nose up someone elses butt and decide who they can or cannot be with, or whether they should be treated as second class citizens under the law . . . they should ask themselves: "Would I like others to have a say or a vote on who I could marry, who I could have a relationship with or whether I can have or raise children, etc." Put the shoe on the other foot and the picture looks a lot different.

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