I'm a 38-year old hetero woman; my best friend is a few years younger and bi. She's been trying to get in my pants for years but no matter how game I am, I just... vaginas don't turn me on. She's been pointing out for a long time that if we have a threesome, everybody wins: the man who has sex with two women, me who has sex with two people but doesn't feel like I have to attack the vagina, and especially her, who gets the best of lots of worlds in that she gets to have sex with me, have sex with him, AND watch us have sex. That has been a now-and-then reminder for a long time. I have never been part of a threesome, but it's something I've always thought about.

She and I were out a few nights ago and I hit it off very well with a man at the show. I pointed him out and mentioned how well our contact had gone. She laughed and said that she'd had sex with him once a few months ago. I said Really? She said Yeah, he's pretty and everything, but not really for me.

I returned to where he was and said, "Have you considered sleeping with X again?" He looked startled and said, "Um... you'd really have to ask her about that." I walked back to X and said Q is our threesome. She said "What?!?" She walked over to X, they talked for a moment, then both started walked back to. (He was so, so tall!) He leaned down and kissed me—so amazing—and we all went to her place. We spent about six hours all having sex together. He and I had astonishing physical chemistry and only passed one sentence the whole time. My friend had her fill before we did and went to the other room to play music and he and I continued trying to wear each other's bones for another hour or so before falling asleep. I woke up a couple of hours late, got dressed, and joined my friend in the other room, where she and I talked about music. There was not a single awkward moment.

I'm telling you this because I could not have done this without you. I grew up in an extremely conservative Assembly of God household, and it was a lot of work to get out of that, all of it. I have never had such a good time naked, and the one second where I wondered whether I was entering something I would regret, I heard the combined years of your voice telling me it was okay. You're doing a lot of good for a lot of people, and when I reminisce about this, which I've been doing non-stop, you're part of it. Thank you!

My First Threesome Was Great

My response after the jump...

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Honestly, MFTWG, I grew increasingly tense as I read your letter, waiting for the "but" that thankfully never came. Most of my mail is about hookups, relationships, marriages, threesomes, blowjobs, spankings, etc., that went off the rails at some point. It was nice to get a letter about something that seems to have gone so right. Thanks for sharing!